My midlife story

In my 40s, I had a change in my life. It wasn't bad, but it helped me see myself better. For a long time, I was busy doing things for others and forgot about what I liked. This realization hit me hard. It wasn't about getting old, but about wanting to understand myself more. When I looked back, I realized I was just going through the motions, not living my own life.

The journey of finding myself has been both exciting and scary. It was hard to change my habits and how I saw things. Stepping outside my comfort zone and exploring who I was deep down was tough but very meaningful.

At this turning point in my life, I decided to be brave and learn more about myself.

After thinking hard, I decided to end a long-term relationship with my youngest kid's father. It was hard, but I needed to do it to be happy and to find my inner peace.

This journey helped me grow, be more mindful, and live authentically. I realized how important it is to feel balanced inside. My new goal was to truly live, instead of just being busy. This changed everything. I started paying attention to each moment, not just rushing through them. I started to read/listen to books and listen to podcasts about self development.

I also discovered strength training at the gym. It became my own personal form of moving meditation, a way to connect with my body and push myself further. Each workout was a journey in itself, a time to sweat, focus, and feel empowered. The discipline and rhythm of lifting weights brought me a different kind of peace and clarity and for me it was also important to have a goal or goals with my training.

This change taught me to live in the present. I learned to appreciate the beauty of now, instead of feeling empty from being busy all the time. I started cherishing each moment, knowing that time is precious and doesn't last forever.

I used to be an overthinker and worry about things in advance. Even though I sometimes do this today as well, it is more seldom and I am conscious about my thoughts and can control them in different ways than I used to.

I say that 2023 was the year I found the pieces that I have been looking for. Because of the work I had been doing and because my situation had changed I had been feeling the midlife itch. I say that the itch is because of my kids are young adults and do not need me as much as they did few years ago. My role as a mom has changed and I felt now that I wanted something More in my midlife. I started searching and tried a few things but the thing that actually brought me to the place I am today is a digital course I bought late in 2023.

Because of that course I knew that I wanted to have an online business.

Here is a link to that course

On my journey in finding out exactly what I wanted my business mentor came into my life - and because of her I am starting my business were I want to help other midlife women to find their passion and motivate them to step into the version of themselves they are longing for and meant to be.

I'm sharing my story with hope and an open mind. My journey shows the power of self-awareness and embracing change. What I learned isn't just for me, but for everyone. Time flies, and as it passes, we have many chances to grow and understand ourselves better.

My midlife reset reminds us all to live fully, be ourselves, and have a purpose.

This time in your life is a powerful call to find yourself, to remember who you are deep down, beyond all the things you do for others. It's time to stop and ask yourself, "Who am I, really?" You might find that you're not the person you dreamed of being. But the amazing thing is: it's never too late to change and make that dream come true.

This is your own story, and you hold the pen. It's about breaking free from old habits, what others expect, and the comfortable routines that have secretly held you back. Embrace this journey with courage and an open heart. Remember, finding yourself is the most important thing you can do.

It leads to living authentically, having deeper relationships, and feeling truly fulfilled. As you start this journey, know that it might not be easy, but the change it brings is worth it.

Believe in yourself, because your midlife awakening isn't just a phase; it's the beginning of a new, exciting chapter in your life.

Stay fantastic ♥

Love /Silla